Our Heavenly Father’s Word says, “Hopes placed in mortals die with them; all the promise of their power comes to nothing” (Proverbs 11:7).
The psalmist tells us, “Better the little that the righteous have than the wealth of many wicked; for the power of the wicked will be broken, but the Lord upholds the righteous” (Psalm 37:16-17)
God works “all things according to the counsel of his will” (Ephesians 1:11).
Mark 7:20-23; an abusive person chooses to do what they do because they want what they want
(James 4:1). Control/oppression violates God’s design for our relationships.
In Luke 6:27-29, Jesus describes things difficult people might do: But to you who are listening I say: Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you. If someone slaps you on one cheek, turn to them the other also.
Lesson:
The need for control is a fundamental aspect of human nature. People have an innate desire to have control over their lives, their environment, and the outcomes of their actions. Power provides individuals with a sense of control, allowing them to shape their circumstances and exert their influence over others. Lust is one of the seven deadly sins. Lust is a term for a strong wanting for something while already having a significant amount of the desired object. Lust can take any form such as the lust for sexual acts, money, or power. Having power involves taking it from someone else, and then, using it to dominate and prevent others from gaining it. In politics, those who control resources and decision making have power over those without. The Bible teaches that God’s sovereignty is an essential aspect of who he is, that he has supreme authority and absolute power over all things. And yes he is very much active, despite our perplexity. Scripture says. If someone tries to control situations or other people to an unhealthy extent, others may describe them as a controlling person. They may try to control a situation by taking charge and doing everything themselves or control others through manipulation, coercion, threats, and intimidation.
How do you not let people have power over you
- Establish healthy boundaries. Ask for what you need. …
- Take responsibility for your emotions. …
- Let other people be responsible for their emotions. …
- Acknowledge your choices. …
- Live according to your values. …
- Forgive, and move forward. …
- Stop trying to prove people wrong. …
- Don’t let your self-worth depend on other people’s opinions.
Approach dominant people on their level.
Make eye contact, skip the small talk, and don’t ramble. Speak confidently and don’t back down. To prevent arguments, avoid making generalizations and support your assertions with evidence. If the dominant person tries to interrupt or talk over you, put a stop to it immediately. Several things can drive controlling behavior. The most common are anxiety disorders and personality disorders. People with anxiety disorders feel a need to control everything around them in order to feel at peace. They may not trust anyone else to handle things the way they will.Some common synonyms of authority are command, control, dominion, jurisdiction, power, and sway.
Closing Prayer;
Help us Lord, to give control of our life over to You in every way, and to become the people You would have us be. Thank You Lord, that You have not given up on us and we ask You to teach us Your way from this day forward. In the name of our lord and savior we pray.
Prayer for renewing faith
Heavenly Father, I’m asking You to give me eyes to see, ears to hear, and a heart to receive Your correction and guidance, as I seek a faith revolution in my life—a dramatic turnaround in my thinking, believing, speaking and acting. I ask You to give me the strength to hold strong in the days ahead.
Lord Jesus take complete control of my life and help me to walk in Your footsteps daily by the power of the Holy Spirit. Thank you Lord for saving me and I know you will answer my prayers. In Jesus name I pray. Amen.
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