Proverbs 15:1 says, “A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.
Prov. 11:13; 25:9 What is told in private should not be disclosed to others.
The one who “keeps a thing covered” is said to be “trustworthy in spirit,” while the one who “goes about slandering reveals secrets”
Proverbs 15:4 tells us, “The soothing tongue is a tree of life, but a perverse tongue crushes the spirit.”
Colossians 4:6 says, “Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how you ought to answer each person.”
Romans 12:18-19
18 Do your best to live in peace with everyone. 19 My friends, do not try to punish others when they wrong you, but wait for God to punish them with his anger. It is written: “I will punish those who do wrong; I will repay them,” says the Lord.
Proverbs 11:13
Speak Life, not Strife:
When others gossip about us, it’s like planting negative seeds. The Bible tells us to be trust builders, not trust breakers. Keep those secrets safe and be a friend worth gold, nurturing trust and respect.
Lesson:
When you speak about someone to each other, or speak at them and not with them, this feels like you like to gossip, and not telling the whole facts. Also, it is nerve racking day in and day out. To also tell someone’s business on the street is not proper, nor does Our Heavenly Father like it. Look at proverbs 11:13 and maybe you will understand from that, but all the verses in this lesson is important to read. This can make a person feel like they have no privacy, it makes them feel like a nobody rather than somebody. Especially when you are a disabled person. It also makes them feel downgraded, and they feel like they do not understand, when these people understand a lot. To punish someone like this because of your own mistakes is very wrong and not right. We would like to suggest you look at the Bible and see what Our Heavenly Father would say on something like this. Pray about it, ask if he would approve of this. Now, some of the disabled are very mean and rude, but there are a lot that are sweet and nice, and like to teach how to handle disabled people. We suspect by a conversation we had with someone that had this problem, that this person may have a lot of doctorates in disability, and was taught by the grandfather of disability, and studied it the most, and the people got their doctorates. You have to be careful about what people have or do not have, maybe some people do understand when you think they do not. Some people have a high doctorate in disabilities, and that is who you are talking about. Maybe this person had documentation about what you were talking about what they did not have and was not allowed to talk to that group. Maybe they should be allowed to meet with these people and be able to talk to them and teach t hem about what they are talking about as far as that particular person or persons. You also have to remember to have an open mind when you go to a meeting like that, because if you go with a closed mind, not much will get accomplished. Let me ask you a question. Would you like to be treated like this, as described above we think you would not, so why are you doing it in the first place. No job is worth your soul. No job is worth losing your Heavenly Father and ending up with th e adversary. Let us remind you eternal life is forever. Maybe it is not too late to invite this person to talk to you, call them on the phone and say, hey we are having a meeting on such and such date. Can you make it, or let the person say, if you make it on this day, I will be there. So think about the way you are doing things and think hard whether you would want to be treated a certain way, or just leave the person alone and let them live their life. You can watch them from afar, but not talk about them in a public place where people can hear including the person you are talking about. The main point of this lesson is communication with each other and with the person you are discussing about is the best way to solve the problem. Some people in a high level position may not get their mail and so they would not know about a meeting and would not show up because they did not know, so always make sure they got mail about something. There may be many reasons why someone may not show up, so do not always think they do not want to come just because they do not show up at something they were invited to.
Closing Prayer: Heavenly Father we hope and pray that all the people that read this will understand it, and understand that this is one of the reasons why they need to be in the Bible more. It is a busy life down here, but we. Hope that they realize that it may pay off to start spending time with you more. We [pray this in the name of Our lord and savior.
Prayer for renewing faith
Heavenly Father, I’m asking You to give me eyes to see, ears to hear, and a heart to receive Your correction and guidance, as I seek a faith revolution in my life—a dramatic turnaround in my thinking, believing, speaking and acting. I ask You to give me the strength to hold strong in the days ahead.
SALVATION PRAYER
Lord Jesus; Please come into my heart as my Lord and Savior. Take complete control of my life and help me to walk in Your footsteps daily by the power of the Holy Spirit. Thank you Lord for saving me and I know you will answer my prayers. In Jesus name I pray. Amen.
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